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Posted by Dr. Beverlee
on July 22, 2004 at 23:06:01:
Date: Jul 2004 I am V P, Hailing from Ranchi (Jharkhand) at present staying in Hyderabad.As I was going through the aryabhatta website, I read about you and felt like sending my profile to you.Let me tell you at first:- I belong to a middle middle class family. I was born and brought up in Ranchi. I have done my PG course in Management in 2002.I got two jobs but both Went out of my hands. At present I am working with publication being PGDBA in Marketing and HR.I am not getting the enough remuneration. Since my childhood I didn`t get what I was looking for be it any front. I even faced Break up in my love relationship after 13 years and second one in 1 year. I felt like Cheated all the time especially from the female members. I always failed to get love and affection from female members be in any relation. My father loves me a lot. But the best part I feel in myself is that I never react adverse to any situation and take time to think and pacify myself on mental level and become cool whatever the scenario is. I wanted to ask some questions.:_ 1)About my personal life. At present I am wearing Rd Coral since 1999 and Ruby since 1 month. I felt like discussing and taking advice from you but I don`t know whether you really feel to reply to me or not. Looking forward for the response from your end If you feel like. Regards. MY DETAILS:- DOB: 26th Nov 1976 (25th night and 26th early morning) Dear V: Since I am not a clairvoyant or able to see the future, I can not answer questions about what will happen in the various parts of your life. However, I can speak about some problems you present to me. You experience frequent disappointments (love and work) so one must ask “What may be creating this?” Is this high expectation that cannot be fulfilled? We can expect many things in life but if they are unrealistic, we will fail at achieving our goal The Yin: Look carefully at your work as an example. Are your skills able to match the work you desire? Can you gain more knowledge and have a more secure position? Analyze why 2 jobs failed. It is necessary when life disappoints you to solve the mystery. Sometimes we can write down all the facts looking back over one year and see a pattern of behavior which may be creating our failed efforts. If we can solve one part of the mystery we can make a change in our life. It is possible that you are doing everything right but the economic times are very poor where you live and work. If that is correct then think about living in a different city where more opportunities exist. The Yang: You had a 13 year relationship which succeeded for a long time. So, it was successful then! Once again, ask yourself what created the breakup? What could you do differently in the future? To believe you were not loved when you were in a relationship for thirteen years may be wrong thinking. It may be that you expect something impossible from your mate. When we cannot accept and enjoy what we are given, then all life becomes a bitter experience. Look at the cup you drink from and say to yourself, “This cup is half full, not half empty.” An old proverb. Feel free to write again. |